Autumn Anxiety And 5 Ways To Feel Calm During Seasonal Change
October 29, 2019
Although it’s a hot late summer here in the Bay Area, I can feel the wind brush of Fall upon us. Can you?
Every change in season carries with it the potential for personal change. The fallen leaves of Autumn have always been a powerful symbol in my life signifying a transition and letting go. The beautiful thing about a leaf is that there is no forcing it to detach from the tree, it is carried along safely by the wind to the ground where it lands and rests as we gaze upon it with awe, and then merges back into the earth feeding the next cycle of movement and growth.
If only it were as easy for us humans to experience change as it is for nature! It takes a sense of trust in the process to calmly appreciate the shift, the ending, and to navigate it with ease.
For many people, anxiety can spike during the transition from Summer to Fall. Autumn Anxiety is real. The sunshine and heat of summer brings with it a sense of expansion and endless possibilities while the pressures of life seem to fade into the background. Then the weather starts to cool and the days become shorter signaling a time of reflection and going inward – which can be anxiety provoking! All of a sudden we’re thinking we didn’t make the most of summer, we forgot about our New Year’s resolutions, we can feel lonely, and anxious about an increase in work or upcoming time with family. The change of season brings a different reality – and one that can sometimes feel confronting.
The good news is there are supportive tools to help us through Autumn Anxiety and land safely into the new season. Below I share some of my favorites.
5 ways to calm anxiety during seasonal change
- 1. Breathe – Breathing techniques are some of the most effective ways to calm your nervous system and shift from the anxiety/stress response in the body to the calm/rest response. In honor of the Equinox, try a few cycles of this 4 part mindful breathing practice:
- Inhale 2 3
- Hold 2 3 4
- Exhale 2 3 4
- Hold 2 3 4
- 2. Get Some Sun – Research shows that exposure to sunlight (and vitamin D) has a strong impact on your mood and eases the discomfort of harsh seasonal change. So go ahead and take 15 minutes on your lunch break to sit outside or catch the sunset on your way home today. Let yourself take in the light through your eyes and skin and let it help you settle into the darker evening.
- 3. Check Your Thoughts – Anxiety often stem from subtle unbalanced thoughts. You might be jumping to conclusions by thinking “there’s no way I’m going to make it through the rest of the year,” or “there’s something wrong with me.” Zen teacher Thich Nhat Hanh suggests we ask ourselves “Am I sure?” in response to these thoughts. You can ask and reflect “have I ever not made it through the Fall?” Remind yourself of all the changes you have made it through, and that the light of Spring will come again – as it does every single year.
- 4. Gratitude – Gratitude practice is one of the fastest ways to interrupt suffering and positively shift your mood. Make a list of 3-5 things you’re grateful for from the summer or simply in this moment. You can be grateful for things big or small, from the sun in the sky, to your paycheck, to the cereal you ate this morning.
- 5. Stay in the Present – Autumn anxiety almost always occurs when you’re worried and fixated on the future. Whether it’s a real or imagined future event, you’re not present. In the present moment is where you have access to your power to choose how you want to handle something. Have you ever noticed that almost always in the present moment you are okay? Mindfulness is a practice that helps us be more present in our lives. It’s an evidence-based tool that helps us relieve stress and anxiety, sleep better, and even improves our relationship to ourselves and others.
My next 6 week mindfulness series begins January 16th at 5pm with a Free Introductory Class happening January 9th. Hope to see you there!
With much warmth and kindness,
Elana Morgulis, MFTAs a psychotherapist, I work on the level of the heart. I bring warmth, presence, deep empathy, and unconditional compassion to my clients. My work is grounded in mindfulness which allows us to open up to our experience with presence and compassion which supports change rather than judgment which keeps us stuck. I believe we have a natural capacity for growth, healing, and self-actualization which often gets blocked by our beliefs.
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